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# `# p) @, n) B2 A) z可口可乐总裁 Brian G. Dyson
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! c( P" O7 l" y% x x设想生活是一场游戏,你正试图把玩5个抛向空中的球。这5个球是工作、家庭、健康、朋友、心灵。& D/ b/ _& ~! [) q, R
4 d: [$ g1 G2 z3 x& t: q你很快就会明白,工作是一个橡皮球。如果,不小心掉下,它还会弹回来。但其他四个球—家庭、健康、朋友和心灵却是玻璃做成的。如果,你不小心,掉下其中的任何一个,它们就会不可弥补地被刻上斑痕、留下缺口、被损坏、甚至破碎。它们绝不会完好如初。
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你必须明白这一点,从而努力平衡你的生活。
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怎样才能做好?
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6 ^1 U+ i M' y: f6 e, I: |4 W1. 不要总是跟别人去比而低估你自己的价值。人与人是不同的,每个人都有自己的特色。
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' h( Z4 z) [4 G& F2. 不要基于别人的择重去设定你的目标,只有你自己才知道什么最适合你。
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' Y. U, a+ W# n# w3. 不要忽视那些最贴近你心坎的人和物。一生中,尽可能黏恋它们。没有这些,生活将毫无意义。) Y7 D+ \0 B0 U3 Y+ J% F3 v7 {: Y
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4. 即不要生活在过去,也不要生活为未来。过好每一天,你便会过好你今生的全部。% i9 L9 Y# F. a `
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5. 不要轻言放弃,当你还可以给予、尝试。事情只终结于当你放弃的那一刻。
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6. 不要害怕承认自己不够完美。正是这根纤弱的丝线将我们绑在一起。
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7. 不要害怕遭遇危险。正是这些机遇,让我们学会勇敢。 : k- O' s z- A; k$ ?
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8. 不要轻言爱情无法寻到而关上心扉。得到爱的最快途径是给予;失去爱的最快途径是拥握太紧;而拥有爱的最好办法是给爱装上翅膀。' o& Z' J* f0 k) Z; v
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9. 不要仓促你的人生,以至于你不但全然忘记去过那里,更不知今后所望。
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* o/ R' K, q9 o; H2 ^$ r6 K- h10. 不要忘记,人类情感最需要的是欣赏、感激。) q* W$ C2 {( J/ b
& u% _0 f- D% Z8 [! l1 W0 W$ B11. 不要害怕学习。知识是一种无重的、可以轻易携带的珍宝。: u9 d H' h/ v# I9 G
2 e- U; R: l& @! h' D$ y' K12. 不要轻易的浪费时间,也不要口无遮掩 。两者都无可挽回。! g( Z- o! w1 R) K) \9 [$ @' _8 s
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- S" ]* q1 J% F) g原文:3 H) F. x& P1 n: X) [. C- R
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Five Balls Of Life- j% G$ ^5 R5 K3 H/ R' r7 F6 h
This was written by the CEO of Coca-Cola Brian G. Dyson.( Y: f. ?4 `! X1 Q# j
It was used as Georgia Tech\'s Commencement Address:
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Imagine life as a game in which you are juggling some five balls in the air.
4 @; [* z% q7 }4 T5 {9 d' ~4 dYou name them - Work - Family - Health - Friends - Spirit, and you\'re keeping all of these in the air.6 u) M! `8 J# Z# b
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You will soon understand that work is a rubber ball. If you drop it, it will bounce back. But the other four balls -- family, health, friends and spirit are made of glass. If you drop one of these, they will be irrevocably scuffed, marked, nicked, damaged or even shattered.
9 h. X. t" D+ h* x+ I- PThey will never be the same. You must understand that and strive for balance in your life. How?: ^5 I7 _( K# L: x
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1. Don\'t undermine your worth by comparing yourself with others. It is because we are different that each of us is special.2 J+ Y" N# m, N4 F! x a
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2. Don\'t set your goals by what other people deem important. Only you know what is best for you.
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3. Don\'t take for granted the things closest to your heart. Cling to them as you would your life, for without them, life is meaningless.
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. r" E8 e! K; n9 f4. Don\'t let your life slip through your fingers by living in the past or for the future. By living your life one day at a time, you live ALL the days of your life.
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, }) Q- f9 V# n5. Don\'t give up when you still have something to give. Nothing is really over until the moment you stop trying.% E! O5 C9 g0 L( W, y; ?
" P" [* ~, ], z6. Don\'t be afraid to admit that you are less than perfect. It is this fragile thread that binds us together.& }# {" o( Z$ q E' _8 r
" |8 R0 u$ V" F% U; Q' a& W7. Don\'t be afraid to encounter risks It is by taking chances that we learn how to be brave.
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" d, l) n/ e! j8 I" H8. Don\'t shut love out of your life by saying it\'s impossible to find. The quickest way to receive love is to give; the fastest way to lose love is to hold it too tightly; and the best way to keep love is to give it wings.
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' o b3 B, o1 Z, Y# P9. Don\'t run through life so fast that you forget not only where you\'ve been, but also where you are going.5 V' L R9 ~2 }: e- z- r
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10. Don\'t forget that a person\'s greatest emotional need is to feel appreciated.
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11. Don\'t be afraid to learn. Knowledge is weightless, a treasure you can always carry easily.* f, E. p: b. V) D
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12. Don\'t use time or words carelessly. Neither can be retrieved.
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